Black women are one of the most beautiful women on earth. Their quality is unmeasured and no matter what struggle or hardship tries to hinder her, she rises and perseveres. There are many Black women who suffer from depression, and hopelessness due to breakups, divorce, insults, and disappointments. This book is to uplift the hearts of every black woman who has been verbally abused, hurt, and forced into a life of hopelessness. This book will help black women apply vigor to energize their self-esteem, so they can rise above obstacles that life and unfaithful men put in their way. Black women struggle enormously in America, and the more they overcome, family courts, degenerate schools, employment or their relationships seem to pull them under again. CHANGING the BLACK WOMAN IN THE MIRROR is a book that helps black women make better decisions when dating and encourage them to overcome any task while fulfilling their dreams and demanding respect.