Getting divorced is almost never easy, but this practical, plain-English guide helps you get through the proceedings with a minimum of stress and expense. It shows you the latest changes in collaborative divorces, common law, and same-sex marriages, and even custody law—and how to work out the terms so you can begin building a fulfilling post-divorce life.



● Understand the divorce process review the key issues and decisions, get your finances in order, and file the petition



● Decide whether divorce is the best option—weigh the pros and cons of separation, consider marriage counseling, and learn about annulments



● Put things in motion—initiate the proceedings, break the news to your spouse and children, and deal with your emotions



● Make important and difficult decisions—divide your assets and debts, make a case for spousal support, and get the best custody arrangement for your children



● Protect yourself—plan for life after divorce, safeguard your money, and take action if things turn unfriendly or dangerous



● Avoid a divorce trial—negotiate your own divorce, seek help from an attorney, and work with a mediator