I'm Not Doing Stupid Anymore: Choosing Love Wisely

This audiobook is narrated by a digital voice.

We all want love that lasts—but too many of us keep choosing relationships that leave us hurt, confused, or wondering, Why do I keep doing this to myself? After decades of studying relationships, coaching others, and surviving her own painful missteps, Pamala Kennedy offers a heartfelt and down-to-earth guide to breaking the cycle of “stupid” choices in love.


Blending personal stories, real-world relationship wisdom, modern psychology, faith-based insight, and even a few rewritten fairytales, this book turns hard truths into hopeful breakthroughs. You’ll learn how to spot red-flag partners, understand the emotional traps that pull us toward the wrong people, rebuild confidence after heartbreak, and choose relationships that are healthy, mutual, and worth your time.


Whether you’re dating again, healing from divorce, or simply tired of the emotional merry-go-round, this book gives you a roadmap for choosing love intentionally—without losing joy, self-respect, or your future in the process.


If you’re ready to stop settling, stop repeating the same mistakes, and finally choose love that loves you back… turn the page. The smarter, wiser, braver version of you is waiting.