Queens Choose Wisely: A Woman’s Guide to Relationship Literacy—No More Chasing, Settling, or Self-Betrayal

What if the greatest mistake women make in dating isn’t choosing the wrong man… but choosing without wisdom?

Many women were never taught how to evaluate character, recognize unhealthy patterns, or discern between chemistry and compatibility. Instead, they were taught to search endlessly for “the one,” often ignoring the wisdom needed to make healthy relationship decisions.

Queens Choose Wisely introduces a powerful concept called relationship literacy—the ability to read people, recognize red flags, and make relationship decisions from wisdom rather than desperation.

Through biblical insight, practical frameworks, and real-life wisdom, Selena Tull equips women with the tools to break unhealthy cycles and approach relationships with clarity and confidence.

Inside this transformative guide, you will discover:

• Why the myth of “the one” keeps women stuck in unhealthy relationships

• The truth behind the Ruth and Boaz story—and what it actually teaches about dating

• How to recognize character before emotional attachment forms

• The Boaz Barometer for evaluating a man’s readiness for commitment

• Bozo Alerts that help you exit unhealthy relationships early

• How to develop discernment and emotional stability while dating

• The power of slow, intentional relationships built on wisdom

This book will help you stop chasing relationships and start choosing them wisely.

Because a queen does not beg for love.

She recognizes it, discerns it, and chooses it with wisdom.