A certified sexologist’s exploration of AI, sex tech, and digital intimacy and redefining desire, relationships, and human connection in the age of artificial intelligence.

Even when it’s virtual, intimacy is still personal

In its truest form, intimacy reveals our deepest impulses, fears, wants, and needs. But as AI companions replace partners, therapy moves to algorithms, and sex tech becomes mainstream, it can be easy to lose that sense of authentic connection with ourselves and others.

Certified sexologist Kaamna Bhojwani asks you to consider what this new form of intimacy is giving you—and what it may be quietly taking away. Drawing on psychology, sexuality research, spirituality, and her own experience building an AI lover, Bhojwani guides you through what is changing, why it matters, and how to engage with technology without losing that essential human touch. In this provocative inquiry, you will explore:


- How AI companions, dating apps, porn, and sex tech are changing love, sex, marriage, and the concept of monogamy
- How to avoid the smoke and mirrors of the intimacy that AI offers to maintain real-world expectations of love
- How AI can exploit sexual shame and loneliness—and how to protect yourself from manipulation, addiction, and data misuse
- A practical framework rooted in ethics and spiritual accountability to help maintain your self-awareness and humanity


Shed the sexual shame and tech worship, and find clarity on what truly brings you the most pleasure, fulfillment, and satisfaction. Because the future of intimacy isn’t theoretical. It’s already here.