A fun, science-backed dating guide that interrupts the relationship patterns keeping love just out of reach—and empowers listeners with the dating tools to build lasting, healthy connections.



Dubbed the “scientific Carrie Bradshaw” by The Observer, relationship expert Amy Chan has helped thousands of singles transform their love lives through her world-renowned Breakup Bootcamp and Dating Bootcamps. What she’s discovered is surprising: Most single people aren’t failing at love because they need years of therapy or a complete personality overhaul. They’re stuck in outdated dating patterns—and once those patterns are identified and interrupted, everything changes.



In this groundbreaking guide, Chan introduces the Dating Funnel framework, a step-by-step dating strategy that pinpoints exactly where people are getting stuck and why. Whether it’s struggling to meet quality matches, feeling frustrated by stalled face-to-face dating connections, or getting caught in situationship purgatory, Unsingle offers a practical roadmap to update dating skills and heal the deeper wounds that block connection. Chan’s approach is refreshingly honest and often hilarious: Sometimes the common denominator in all those dating disasters isn’t bad luck—it’s a pattern. She’s here to lovingly call it out and teach exactly how to shift it. Backed by cutting-edge research, real client transformations, and her signature blend of tough love and genuine warmth, Unsingle proves that creating lasting love isn’t about luck—it’s about skill.