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We Over Me: The Counterintuitive Approach to Getting Everything You Want from Your Relationship

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Book
27
Narrator
13
Release Date
February 7, 2023
Duration
6 hours 40 minutes
Summary
NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • The stars of the social media show The Ellises and hosts of the Webby Award-winning podcast Dead Ass with K&D share the core pillars of their relationship as millennial lovers and parents that have allowed them to thrive.

“Staying married in this day and age takes a whole different mindset, and this book gives an intimate and honest look at the inner workings of their strong union.”—Gia Peppers, award-winning journalist and host

After twelve years of marriage, twenty years together, and four kids, Devale and Khadeen Ellis have been through a lot. They’ve loved their way through a long-distance relationship, financial instability, parenthood, Khadeen’s near-death, and their near-divorce, chronicling their day-to-day life with their boys online. After much trial and error, they hit upon one surprising, essential truth: If you’re looking for a healthy relationship and a fulfilling life, focus on your partner’s needs instead of your wants. Choosing service over selfishness will not only make your relationship stronger, but it will help you achieve your own goals and build a legacy together.

With their trademark transparency and humor, Khadeen and Devale share the messy, behind-the-scenes work of what it takes to succeed and support one another in their search for individual purpose while growing in their marriage. They discuss family, parenting, sex and intimacy, finances, and commitment, with honest advice threaded through their stories, such as:

• Stop comparing yourselves to other couples and make your own rules.
• Learn how to function as a team.
• Keep talking about sex.
• The kids ain’t first.

The Ellises might not have all the answers, but they do know that good love takes friendship, grace, and service. Their personal and relatable truths will inspire you to be the kind of partner you want to be so you can build a supportive, enduring relationship.
Reviews
Profile Avatar Andrea H. Feb 2023

The book was full of gems that will benefit me in my 24 year marriage that is wonderful and able to be better and better daily!!!

Profile Avatar Raegine D. Jun 2023

This book was amazing, it really opened my eyes on the type of person I want to be in a relationship and the type of man I should be seeking. The notes I took during this read…..I’m about to find my dream man and have the desired relationship I am worth having!

Profile Avatar Anonymous Feb 2023

This book is a gem! It’s written and narrated by the Ellises and I loved that! They would give their vantage point on the same topic which gave such a FULL illustration of the point that was being conveyed. I’ve been married 20 years and 12 years older than them but I gleaned a lot from their wisdom and experience. The transparency took courage and definitely invites reflection. Oh and they are hilarious, as usual! No disappoint here!!

Profile Avatar Tamika D. Sep 2025

We Over Me is a great read for anyone looking to strengthen their relationship. The book gives practical advice on improving communication and building respect between partners. I really appreciated how it focuses on teamwork and understanding, reminding me that small changes can make a big difference. It’s a book I’d recommend to couples who want to grow together.

Profile Avatar Jamilla R. Sep 2023

Love it, this was my first read on here and it gave what it was suppose to give, I love how they both went back and forth when ready, definitely gives me a better insight on relationships and communication

Profile Avatar Angela B. Jun 2023

This book provide gems for married couples and for those seeking a married partner. A great perspective on how they manage their lies around their own me versus others. Loved It!

Profile Avatar Anonymous Mar 2023

Great book and narrative!

Profile Avatar Ashley J. Mar 2023

Yall... This book is beautiful. Kay and Devale were soooo honest. As a single woman I learned sooooo much about marriage and relationships! I listen to their podcast and I was like what else could they tell us that we do not already know??? The answer is a lot! I laughed and cried and realized somethings about myself and my communication style. Great listen.

We Over Me: The Counterintuitive Approach to Getting Everything You Want from Your Relationship

We Over Me: The Counterintuitive Approach to Getting Everything You Want from Your Relationship

Author: Khadeen Ellis
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