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A Well-Trained Wife: My Escape from Christian Patriarchy

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Tia Levings
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43
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15
Release Date
August 6, 2024
Duration
10 hours 54 minutes
Summary
This gripping audiobook is a strong choice alongside books about high-demand religion, overcoming odds, and finding inner strength in impossible situations.'—Booklist (Starred Review)

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“Today it hit me when he hit me, blood shaking in my brain. Maybe there wasn’t a savior coming. Maybe it was up to me to save me.”

Recruited into the fundamentalist Quiverfull movement as a young wife, Tia Levings learned that being a good Christian meant following a list of additional life principles––a series of secret, special rules to obey. Being a godly and submissive wife in Christian Patriarchy included strict discipline, isolation, and an alternative lifestyle that appeared wholesome to outsiders. Women were to be silent, “keepers of the home.”

Tia knew that to their neighbors her family was strange, but she also couldn't risk exposing their secret lifestyle to police, doctors, teachers, or anyone outside of their church. Christians were called in scripture to be “in the world, not of it.” So, she hid in plain sight as years of abuse and pain followed. When Tia realized she was the only one who could protect her children from becoming the next generation of patriarchal men and submissive women, she began to resist and question how they lived. But in the patriarchy, a woman with opinions is in danger, and eventually, Tia faced an urgent and extreme choice: stay and face dire consequences, or flee with her children.

Told in a beautiful, honest, and sometimes harrowing voice, A Well-Trained Wife is an unforgettable and timely memoir about a woman's race to save herself and her family and details the ways that extreme views can manifest in a marriage.

A Macmillan Audio production from St. Martin’s Press.
Reviews
Profile Avatar Electra R. Aug 2024

This book helped me understand how the teachings of Bill Gothard entered my life as a child even though I was not part of the IBLP. This realization has helped me heal in multiple ways. This book was beautifully written, the imagery is exceptional and the story shines a light on a reality about culture in the United States.

Profile Avatar Andie W. Jul 2026

Tia’s story is remarkable. Couldn’t stop listening

Profile Avatar Jeanne Sep 2025

I started the book knowing that Tia’s treatment by her husband would make me mad, and I was right. Watching her do the ‘hard work’ and grow was very impressive. I am glad she was able to end in what sounds like a good place. I hope her children were able to get the therapy they needed. I think it is good that she didn’t try to tell their story in the book.

Profile Avatar Anonymous Sep 2025

Loved it! It hit home in many ways!

Profile Avatar Dana Aug 2025

I loved this book! Teal lays out her past in a really relatable way!

A Well-Trained Wife: My Escape from Christian Patriarchy

A Well-Trained Wife: My Escape from Christian Patriarchy

Author: Tia Levings
Read by: Tia Levings
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