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You Can't Have It All: The Basic B*tch Guide to Taking the Pressure Off

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Stassi Schroeder
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Ratings
Book
6
Narrator
3
Release Date
September 10, 2024
Duration
6 hours 2 minutes
Summary
THE INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

From New York Times bestselling author, OG Vanderpump Rules star, and host of the successful podcast Stassi, a “raw, relatable…brutally funny” (Bustle) guide to rethinking the girlboss life, taking the pressure off, and the lessons Stassi Schroeder’s learned since becoming a mom of two.

Before she wrote Off with My Head, a book about hitting what felt like rock bottom, Stassi Schroeder was writing an entirely different story: a basic bitch’s guide on how to be a—wait for it—“girlboss.” But then 2020 came along and after a global pandemic, losing her job, becoming a mom, and getting married, suddenly, being a girlboss wasn’t the vibe. Instead of giving up, Stassi grew and learned from her mistakes (you know, just standard evolution).

After two and a half years in limbo, Stassi was ready to launch her career again. She’d come a long way from that temperamental “Season One Stassi.” She’d gained a new perspective on what she wants out of life: to carve a path for herself, on her terms. The thing is, all this pressure to “have it all” while girlbossing it up…it’s exhausting, and Stassi isn’t sure it’s the ticket to happiness that we all thought it was.

That’s truly what this book is about: the desire for joy, and accepting that you may not be the “perfect” parent/partner/friend/human—and that’s okay! Instead of letting mom guilt or work guilt get her down, Stassi encourages us all to take the pressure off, give ourselves grace, and lean into the things that bring us happiness. And if you need a little sauvignon blanc or Aperol spritz to get you through the tough days…cheers!
Reviews
Profile Avatar Anonymous Jun 2026

Fantastic!

Profile Avatar Rachel T. Oct 2024

I loved it! An actual honest view on life as a working mom. Moms act like they can do it all and have it all - but it’s ok to just be sometimes! Stassi was brilliant as the narrator.

Profile Avatar Rebecca M. Sep 2024

On its way to New York’s best seller. Stassi is witty, funny, and so relatable.

You Can't Have It All: The Basic B*tch Guide to Taking the Pressure Off

You Can't Have It All: The Basic B*tch Guide to Taking the Pressure Off

Author: Stassi Schroeder
Read by: Stassi Schroeder
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