You Don't Look Like Anyone I Know: A True Story of Family, Face-Blindness, and Forgiveness

Unabridged Audiobook

Written By: Heather Sellers

Narrated By: Karen White

Publisher: Blackstone Audiobooks

Date: October 2010

Duration: 10 hours 35 minutes

Summary:

This is an unusual and uncommonly moving family memoir, with a twist that gives new meaning to hindsight, insight, and forgiveness.

Heather Sellers is face-blind that is, she has prosopagnosia, a rare neurological condition that prevents her from reliably recognizing people's faces. Growing up, unaware of the reason for her perpetual confusion and anxiety, she took what cues she could from speech, hairstyle, and gait. But she sometimes kissed a stranger, thinking he was her boyfriend, or failed to recognize even her own father and mother. She feared she must be crazy.

Yet it was her mother who nailed windows shut and covered them with blankets, made her daughter walk on her knees to spare the carpeting, and had her practice secret words to use in the likely event of abduction. Her father went on weeklong 'fishing trips' (a.k.a. benders), took in drifters, and wore panty hose and bras under his regular clothes. Heather clung to a barely coherent story of a 'normal' childhood in order to survive the one she had.

'A brilliant memoir that is part love story, part detective work'this wonderful writer manages to capture the pain and the joy found in the mysteries of mind and heart. A fascinating, disturbing journey, by turns hilarious and heartbreaking.''Abigail Thomas, author of Safekeeping


That fairy tale unraveled two decades later when Heather took the man she would marry home to meet her parents and began to discover the truth about her family and about herself. As she came at last to trust her own perceptions, she learned the gift of perspective: that embracing the past as it is allows us to let it go. She illuminated a deeper truth'that even in the most flawed circumstances, love may be seen and felt.

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