This audiobook is narrated by an AI Voice. You’ve Become a Dog No One Knows They Can Pet: The Gap No One Talks About, is a practical, deeply honest guide for high achievers, entrepreneurs, veterans, parents, spouses, and lifelong learners who look successful on the outside but feel reactive, exhausted, or disconnected at home.

Phil Randazzo explores the gap between the person we present in public and the person our family experiences behind closed doors. Through personal stories, reflective practices, and lessons drawn from decades of work with military members, veterans, entrepreneurs, and leaders, he helps listeners identify inherited emotional patterns, unconscious beliefs, and the pressure of feeling behind in life.

This book is not about chasing another breakthrough, productivity system, or self-improvement fix. It is about slowing down, seeing what has been quietly running you, interrupting old reactions, and becoming more available to the people who matter most.

For anyone tired of repeating the same patterns, apologizing for the same reactions, or wondering why success has not produced peace, this audiobook offers a clear invitation: you are not broken, you are patterned—and patterns can change.